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Eighth-Grade Innovator Helps Girls Focus on Class Periods, Not Menstrual Periods
“If men could menstruate,” Gloria Steinem observed wryly in an iconic 1978 essay for Ms. magazine, “[s]anitary supplies would be...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Aug 2, 2017
The Baby as Scientist and the Parent as Gardener: Alison Gopnik’s Inspiring Views on Childhood
One of my favorite books to recommend to new parents is The Scientist in the Crib: What Early Learning Tells Us About the Mind. In it,...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Jun 15, 2017
I May Not Heal, But I Will Live Better Thanks to Occupational Therapy
Last year I learned how to chop a carrot with my eyes closed. While being filmed. Sounds like one of those crazy reality cooking shows,...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Jun 10, 2017
That Time of the Month in Victorian America
The National Museum of Civil War Medicine asked me to write a blog post about how women handled menstruation in the nineteenth century,...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Feb 12, 2017
Referendum on a Life in the Woods
For three decades, my dad’s brothers framed houses. The three of them had a small construction business in rural Connecticut. The eldest...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Feb 8, 2017
Nurse-Midwives are With Women, Walking a Middle Path to a Safe and Rewarding Birth
In childbirth politics as in all politics, extreme viewpoints make the news, and sensible centrists are ignored. A couple of years ago,...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Dec 23, 2016
Is Your Doctor Experimenting On You?
My friend’s father is in the hospital, and it’s been rough. His cancer treatment did not go as expected. “He’s suffering so much!” my...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Nov 30, 2016
Are We Free to Be President Yet? The Legacy of Pat Schroeder and 1970s Feminism
I was born into 1970s feminism. I came into the world in 1972, the year Free to Be You and Me came out. It must have made a big...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Oct 18, 2016
Diversity Works, but Only if We Can Forgive One Another
“We are a divided nation,” Donald Trump repeats again and again. And then he makes plans to divide us still further: registration of...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Oct 11, 2016
Playwright Alice Eve Cohen Asks Us to Reconsider What We Think We Know about Pregnancy and Motherhoo
“What makes a mother real?” asks writer and performer Alice Eve Cohen in her newly-published play, What I Thought I Knew. In 1999, Cohen...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Aug 25, 2016
The Problem with Fat-Talk at the Pediatrician’s Office
“His BMI is on the high side of normal. See?” The pediatrician showed me a chart. “This is something we need to keep an eye on.” I had...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Jul 13, 2016
I Could Wrestle with my Disability, but I Think I’ll Dance Instead
A year and a half ago, I gained a permanent dance partner. That’s what I’ve decided. That’s how I need to think about the damage to my...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
May 26, 2016
Sorry, I’m Disabled. Oh, Wait, I’m Not Sorry, Just Disabled.
“Sorry,” I say, “Sorry, but would you mind giving me the directions again a little slower? I have a visual impairment and I didn’t see...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
May 3, 2016
Enforcing Death Rituals after Miscarriage is Just Plain Cruel
The Indiana legislature claims it wants to protect unborn children and their parents. Last week Governor Mike Pence gave his blessing to...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Apr 14, 2016
Clio Talks: An Interview with Historian Jessica Martucci
This week I had the pleasure of interviewing historian Jessica Martucci at length about her new book, Back to the Breast: Natural...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Mar 3, 2016


Sequins, Fur, Nudity, Arabesques, and Seriously Funny Commentary on Modern Girlhood
Friday night I went to Joe’s Pub and saw B.A.N.G.S.: made in america, a wonderful dance performance full of sequins and fur, cutoffs and...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Feb 15, 2016
Of Rifles and Responsibility: How Can We Speak to Each Other Across the Gun Control Divide?
As a kid, I loved shooting a rifle with my uncle, out back at my grandmother’s farmhouse. My dad and I would go out with Uncle Bill, in...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Jan 13, 2016
Yes, I’m a Wife, But You Can Call Me the “Current Supporting Spouse”
The year my second son was born, I went to work, and my husband stayed home. It was the most luxurious year of my life. In the mornings,...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Nov 14, 2015
Average-looking Married Couples Having Caring, Respectful Sex
A friend of mine recently lamented that when he sat his teenage son down to have “The Talk,” he had to focus on the internet instead of...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Sep 29, 2015
If You’re Not a Jerk, Then I’m Not Disabled
This is my fantasy: I’m standing at the Main Street corner in my little New Jersey suburban downtown, waiting to cross the street. As...

Lara Freidenfelds (Admin)
Sep 3, 2015
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